Wow, tonight I attended a talk by Jean Shinoda Bolen, a Jungian psychiatrist. I had never heard of her, but my mother is a big fan and thought I would enjoy it. Well, i did.
Jean spoke of the power of women to create peace. What she had to say was revolutionary...but in an accessable way. She talked about the difference in stress reactions between men and women. Traditionally, "fight or flight" has been the buzz word for stress reactions. When attacked, humans either try to fight, or run away. She told a story of a a study done at UCLA, when researchers on a lab noticed that the men and women in the lab reacted to stress in different ways. They noticed that the men tended to go for flight. They holed themselves in their cubbies or offices. They needed retreat time. The women, on the other hand, congregated. They drank alot of coffe together, and talked!
So, they took blood samples to measure what happens in the body during stress.. For men, adreline (supported by testosterone) was in creased in the blood stream. For women, a chemical called oxytocin, a hormone controlled by estrogen that is linked to mothering and bonding, spikes. From there, she submitted that women have a psyiological advantage when raching for the goal of peace. Now, I'm pretty sceptical of gender stereotyping, but the blood work results got my attention.
She also spoke on war in Rowanda, and in the middle east, equating them to dysfunctional families. Sibling rivalry taken to a dreadful extream. She talked about how our boys are raised, the culture of bullying not only at school, but at home. Older brothers bullying the younger, and parents teaching boys in subtle (or not so subtle) ways that expressing emotions is not suitable for a man. She threw out UN studies on the necissary role of women in peace talks, the Hundredth Monkey Effect (even for things like recycling, or the awareness level of global warming), and the power of people coming together in circle...praying or meditating together, for eachother's problems and for the world's.
It was an awsome talk. Most of the philosophy part, I was already familiar with. It brought me back to my feminist teenage days. It reminded me that I am a part of a global community and that I can work towards an even more eco-reverent and gender-equal society, just by living my life. It reminded me to be proud to be a woman, that we have skills and instincts that are different than men, that we approach problem solving from a community perspective. And that when men and women come together in an open, reverent atmosphere we can change the world.
So why put this is my craft blog? I have worked in small business crafts shops for a while now. I see women (and even some men) that would probably never have interacted as equals on a regular basis come together over fiber arts. People of any socio-econimoc class can create. It's part of being human, we are hardwired to create. It connects us; it gives us an opportunity to share and learn, to gain respect for someone that we might have otherwise judged or dismissed.
One of the things I love the most at the shop is to see people of a wide variety of backgrounds, income levels, religious beliefs, and political leanings sitting a the same table, kniting and laughing. Dont get me wrong, the yarn shop isn't utopia. There's the occassional drama, but on the whole, it's a good place. It's a neutral zone where all kinds of people come together over the love of craft. It's a small scale, powerful magic. At least, that's my opinion.
(if you want to know more about Jean Shinoda Bolen, visit her website at
www.jeanshinodabolen.com)